Jul 2

Self reliance is having the courage to listen to your inner prompting. For example, the kind of success you truly desire. It means believe in yourself. Rather than listening to something or someone outside yourself, you should follow your intuition. You should not follow the beat of someone’s else drum. Here are some tips to develop self reliance.

The first tip is to break the dependency habit. Since dependency degrades both the person who is dependent and the person who is being depended upon. Both of these parties lack in self reliance. Overcoming dependency is’nt a easy task because we had being looking others for our welfare, guidance and wisdom since our childhood. But the dependency can be break since each person has being born with unique quality to resolve each difficulty. The person who is self reliant does not need a master to lean on. He can face any challenge with confidence or power by looking at each situation in the light of reality.

The second tip is to think about your own welfare. Your main concern is to get attention as much as possible. In today’s scenario the greatest gift given by the parents is to help kids to become self confident by making them self reliant. Parents should give their children as much responsibility as much they can handle at any age level.

The third tip is to take independent decisions. Our decisions should not need any confirmity. Confirmity is one of the great psychological evils since the person who trapped in this circle rarely reaches to his goal. He can’t be an independent person and does not take his own decisions.

The fourth tip is to stop comparing from others. The person who compares himself from others lives in the state of fear.

The fifth tip is to make you free from others. You should be responsible for your physical as well as emotional well being.

Jul 1

I have conducted a survey of working people about "do they need self improvement? The most of the  people says "no". When I ask the reason, the answer is they had all the basic necessities of life, a good job, a loving partner and a well cared family. I really got surprised after listening this answer. Is the person got grab in all these things? Do these person ever think of their future? Do they ever want to be prosper in their life? Do they really know what is self improvement?  In my opinion their life is becoming stagnant which can be just shake by one attack.

If you want to be prosper in your life you want self improvement. Everyone needs self improvement at every level. There is no stage defined where you do not want self improvement. As we all are continuously rising and evolving, we should learn and develop to deal with everything that life communicate with us. In such a competitive environment one has to change jobs quite often throughout his working lives. The time had gone where the person wants job stability. Now each person run towards the best opportunity.

Time had changed in which the person wants just three basic things of life: food, clothing and shelter. Now the demands are increasing day by day. So the person should be well stable in such a way so that he can be able to fulfill the all secondary demands which may he feel are increasing day by day. The other reason for self improvement is to be satisfy by your  job. You should work in such a company which can understand your talent. Your talent should not be wasted while working with the company. Now there are some tips for self improvement which can help you in making a successful career.

Always be in time to your job
If you are late to your job it can be the reason for your termination. So make a habit of waking up early. This habit can make you succeed.

Make a gap from backstabbing people in the office
Never enter into the argument with your office mate since it can be the another reason for your termination.

Find the root of the problem
Just try to find the reason of your unhappiness. The easiest way to find it is to ask "why" five times.

Don’t make your life stagnant.
The real fun lies only in change. It is an interesting activity to change your career and job. It can also prevent your life from being boredom. So be creative and always undergoes self improvement.