Jun 30

To live life happily is not an easy task but also not a big task. Living a happy life is wonderful and is also good for our health. If we have a look around ourselves we find a lot of people living in a wonderful and optimistic life even in the most terrible situations. How do they manage to do so inspite of having such a stressful life? The main reason behind this is that they believes the philosphy of Bobby McFerrin, "Don’t Worry, Be Happy".

Nobody can make you genuine happy. To be genuine happy you have to love yourself. You has to find your strengths and weaknesses. Always try to overcome your weakness with your strengths. No one is perfect in his life. You has to accept yourself as you are. You has to discover the ways on how to improve your repertoire to recover from your mistakes.

Genuine happiness also comes when you are happy with every situation in your life. The situation can be winning or losing, failing or getting what you want. The person who doesn’t get depressed in losing position but tries to get rid of that position and convert it into a winning position knows the meaning of genuine happy. He knows that failure in person’s life is as important as air.

Some people accept genuine happiness as to get married, getting a job, going abroad, having some beautiful children or beating the sales quota. But just has a thought, "is it really a genuine happiness"? The answer is no. Genuine happiness is to achieve your target in the life. Each person has its own ambition and thus different meaning for genuine happy. Happiness for a writer may mean launching as much best selling books as possible. Happiness for a basketball rookie may mean getting the rookie of the year award. Happiness for a beggar may mean a lot of money. Happiness for a business man may mean success.

So, in the nutshell, I want to conclude that genuine happiness is all about doing and making the best out of every thing. Your willingness to stand uo again and try wil make you a genuinely happy person.