There are many uncontrollable habits of a low self esteem person. They are simply the abilities that temporarily avoid facing up the personal reality. These are listed below
The first is that such a person engages him self in complaining and blaming others. He will always refuse the fact that he is responsible for things around him. He will always attempt to build himself up by pulling others down.
The second problem with such a person is finding fault with others who do not accept or comply with his values.
The third is that person wants special attention and approval by others. They cant appreciate themselves as a worthy individual, but wants continous confirmation and approval from others.
The fourth is that person do not have close friends. They choose to be loners living their lives apart from others.
The fifth is that such a person suffers from deprssion. He will become totally discouraged with himself. He feels out of control, inadequate and unworthy. The frustration and anxiety in trying to live up to his own expectations and those of others causes him to have low self esteem.
The sixth is that a person with low self esteem is incapable of making decisions since he feels that he is incapable in doing so.
The greedy and selfish person will have a low self esteem. They are busy in fulfilling their own needs to compensate for their lack of self worth.
The eighth is that a person with low self esteem might even try to commit suicide. Such people are not trying to escape from the world but they are trying to escape from themselves. Instead of facing the problem, they feel depressed and hurt and seek to put an end it all.
December 2nd, 2008 at 1:32 am
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Karen Halls
December 2nd, 2008 at 11:13 am
Unfortunately, as harsh as these points may sound to some people, I see them as true also. This is why healing self-esteem is so important and not something to be swept under the rug. I believe the above list is from a wounded ego which is running the false sense of self-esteem in the person’s life. Our true power, comes from our innermost Self. If we find our sense of self and thus self-esteem from this vantage point, we we not be tossed to and fro by the opinions of others. Nor would we search outside of ourselves for peace that can only come from within.