Self reliance is having the courage to listen to your inner prompting. For example, the kind of success you truly desire. It means believe in yourself. Rather than listening to something or someone outside yourself, you should follow your intuition. You should not follow the beat of someone’s else drum. Here are some tips to develop self reliance.
The first tip is to break the dependency habit. Since dependency degrades both the person who is dependent and the person who is being depended upon. Both of these parties lack in self reliance. Overcoming dependency is’nt a easy task because we had being looking others for our welfare, guidance and wisdom since our childhood. But the dependency can be break since each person has being born with unique quality to resolve each difficulty. The person who is self reliant does not need a master to lean on. He can face any challenge with confidence or power by looking at each situation in the light of reality.
The second tip is to think about your own welfare. Your main concern is to get attention as much as possible. In today’s scenario the greatest gift given by the parents is to help kids to become self confident by making them self reliant. Parents should give their children as much responsibility as much they can handle at any age level.
The third tip is to take independent decisions. Our decisions should not need any confirmity. Confirmity is one of the great psychological evils since the person who trapped in this circle rarely reaches to his goal. He can’t be an independent person and does not take his own decisions.
The fourth tip is to stop comparing from others. The person who compares himself from others lives in the state of fear.
The fifth tip is to make you free from others. You should be responsible for your physical as well as emotional well being.